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Shinji Morokuma |
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Mediation Shouldn't Endanger
Anyone
By: Shinji MorokumaTV
viewers of a certain vintage will remember the hit show “Hill Street
Blues,” a landmark serial police drama set in a gritty precinct of an
unidentified U.S. city. For several seasons, virtually every show
began with a shift roll call, and Sergeant Phil Esterhaus would wrap
up every roll call with his trademark admonishment to his assembled
cops: “Hey (insert dramatic pause) - let’s be careful out
there.” It was a paternal farewell and an ominous reminder of the
grave danger the cops faced every time they marched off to wage peace
on the streets. Viewers knew what was coming, yet they waited for him
to say it every time.
That
warning phrase came bubbling up through my memory as I read about two
people being shot and killed in Phoenix at a mediation on January 30.
According to news reports, the 70-year old gunman was a party to a
garden-variety business dispute mediation, which was being held at a
law office in a business park. Sometime during the session, one of
the parties pulled out a handgun and opened fire, killing the opposing
party and opposing counsel and wounding one bystander before escaping
and shooting himself dead. The shooter apparently had no history of
violent behavior, although he is alleged to have had a temper and had
filed 10 or more prior civil lawsuits against various defendants.
I
bet many of the circumstances of this terrible story could describe
nearly every mediation you have done outside of a courthouse –
seemingly routine issues, law office, anonymous office park, parties
with no known history of violence. Yet, in Phoenix, three mediation
participants were killed. And that should give you and every ADR
practitioner pause. That could be you. That could be me.
Let’s face this discomforting fact: ours can be a dangerous
profession. After all, our job is to intervene among people who are
in crisis, who are often angry, frustrated, and agitated or may become
so during the mediation. If they’re in a lawsuit, it is likely one of
the worst experiences of their lives. They usually are not thinking
clearly or rationally in the context of the dispute, and they are so
stressed that if they feel at all threatened, they may react with
aggression. Yes, even if all of your participants wear expensive
suits. You can never be sure what kind of situation you are walking
into.
That’s why you – the trained mediator, protector of the process, and
perhaps the only person in the room who is thinking clearly and
rationally – have to ensure that sessions are conducted in as civil
and productive a manner as possible. Most of the time, things go
well. But mediation participants are predictably unpredictable. Even
if you do everything right, you still cannot truly control the
behavior of others. For example, a very experienced colleague was
followed home last year and confronted in her driveway by an angry
mediation participant. Her kids were at home. Think about that for
minute.
Which brings to mind this axiom: where you mediate is as important as
how you mediate. We have always said that mediations are safest in
courthouses with functioning metal detectors and security screening
systems that are staffed by law enforcement and where armed deputies
or marshals are but a few steps away. Obviously not every mediation
can be conducted in such a secure setting. But if you routinely
conduct mediations in office parks and office buildings with no
security measures and no security personnel on site, you need to be
aware that there is an elevated risk of danger to you and the
participants. The comfort and convenience of mediating in an office
setting comes with a cost. (Of course, we know that even secured
courthouses cannot guarantee safety. Eight years ago, on March 11,
2005, three people – a judge, a court reporter, and a sheriff’s
sergeant – were killed in the Fulton County Courthouse by a man on
trial for rape who overpowered a deputy and took her gun.)
You
should also be aware that your physical safety can be jeopardized by
information you post in the digital world. Michele Gibson, our
marketing columnist and producer of BeNeutral, wrote in the
May 2012 issue about how people can inadvertently make personal
information available on the Internet.
Short of mediating in a fortress, what can you do to increase the
likelihood that your mediation will begin and end safely? Here are
some tips that come to mind (this is by no means an exhaustive list):
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Be
explicit with participants about your policy of not bringing any
weapons to mediation, remind them of it when they arrive at the
mediation, and ask if they have brought any weapons; |
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Be
sure your court ADR program has screened the case for domestic
violence or abuse issues; |
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Ask
if court personnel or ADR program staff have had any prior contact
with the participants, and if so, what their impressions were; |
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Pay
attention to your instincts. If something feels wrong, it’s
likely to be; |
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Always seat yourself so that you have clear access to the door and
an exit; |
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Know the layout of the mediation site, know what resources may be
available to you on site, and know how to get help; |
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Have your phone with you always so you can call for help; |
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Talk to your office landlord and other tenants about increasing
security measures; |
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Consider installing panic switches in rooms routinely used for
mediation; |
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Review your training on how to recognize and handle tension and
violence in mediation; |
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Use
the process to diffuse tensions (use caucus, take breaks, have
snacks and refreshments available) especially in mediations that
stretch more than an hour or two; |
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Set
a policy that mediation participants must remain on the premises
during any breaks or caucuses so that weapons cannot be retrieved
from vehicles or outsiders; and |
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Take and maintain control over the process, and if things get hot,
maintain neutrality and remain calm, and do not add to the tension
through your own actions. |
And
hey - let’s be careful out there. Please.
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