 |
Workplace Bullying the Silent
Epidemic
Part 2 of a 3 part series by Mike
Hanlon
The
Perpetrator
Regardless of their
styles or methods, perpetrators of workplace bullying have specific
goals. They are to paralyze the target, to control the emotional
climate and to effectively destroy the self worth and perception of
worth of the target. In short, they wage open psychological warfare on
another person, designed to destroy them emotionally and
professionally.
Who are the
perpetrators? Typically they are people who have risen to some level
of supervisory or other level of power within an organization and have
the ability to exert some level of control over others. They may be
seen by their bosses as task oriented, a go-getter, a results driven
individual, often seemingly in line with the organization's goals and
objectives. Perpetrators often "cozy up" to their own supervisors and
appear to be good guys in the eyes of unaware management or
administration. In reality they are most often the opposite, under
motivated, insecure, less competent, who are threatened by the
competence and effort displayed by their targets. As previously
stated, bullying is a learned behavior that has been proven to meet
the interests of the bully. In workplace settings this often includes
recognition from superiors for their "performance", the stifling of
potential rivals, personal gratification from the feeling of power
they are able to assert and in some cases economic gain by subverting
the targets accomplishments and claiming them as their own. In rare
cases the perpetrator's actions can be attributed to psychological and
personality disorders such as antisocial personality disorder (as
defined in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual (DSM-IV)). Four main
conduct types have been identified *1.
While each of these bully types may differ in their methods of
demeaning their targets, yet the net effect remains the same.
What is true is that
most perpetrators are bosses. In the same 2007 WBI Zogby study
mentioned previously, 72% of bullying incidents were attributed to
bosses, 18% to co-workers and only 10% of the cases were classified as
"bottom up". Perpetrators have a "support system", either overt or
tacit, including executives and senior managers, peers, the
organization's human resource department (HR) and even the target's
peers.
How can perpetrators
continue with impunity? The WBI Labour Day poll of 2009 indicated the
following statistics. In a sample of 422 targets of workplace
bullying, the following results were noted. When targets reported
incidents of being bullied at work, 54% of the reports resulted in no
consequences to the bully. Incredibly, 28% of the bullies were
actually rewarded, 14% were investigated, and a grand total 4% of
bullies were punished and /or terminated (2% and 2% respectively),
evidence supporting the re-traumatisation of targets and thus the
‘silent’ epidemic.
Why do bullies bully?
Most simply put, because they can. Without effective leadership
modelling, policy and effective legislation, perpetrators continue
their behavior and continue to reap the rewards from their actions. To
date only four provinces have anti-bullying legislation, and recent
education legislation includes anti-bullying programs.
The Target
The true central figure
to this phenomenon and the person most worthy of our attention is the
target. Please note that for the purposes of recovery and dignity the
word ‘victim’ is not used. The word ‘victim’ often places unnecessary
focus on the person being violated and can suggest a certain
responsibility and helplessness on their part. Victims become a
persona. In the workplace targets float in and out of the crosshairs
of the perpetrator and are never sure when they will strike. It is an
alarming circumstance over which they have no control.
Targets of workplace
bullying are often competent, well liked, independent, ethical, honest
and not politically motivated. In short, they are frequently the ideal
employee. There are certain biases that pervade workplaces in relation
to targets. They include not being believed, being blamed for
"provoking" the bully and branded as troublemakers in the
organization. This further traumatizes them.
For those in the ADR
field, understanding conflict styles helps better understand the
mindset of targets. Most targets would fall into the
accommodator/avoider roles. Therefore when confronted with behaviors
that fall outside of their comfort zones they usually withdraw. This
reaction will often trigger a stress response, further damaging the
targets.
Not all targets of
bullying in the workplace are the simple "worker bees", but a full 55%
are. Supervisory and senior managers themselves are targeted 35% of
the time *2,
while this number is often considered to be under reported due to the
fact that if they identify as targets, they subject themselves to
professional peril by being identified as "weak" in a workplace
culture that fosters a "zero sum gain" philosophy (the win-lose
culture of business).
The
Bystander/Co-worker
While not a lot of time
will be given to this group in this article, it is important to note
the importance this group has in further isolating the target and/or
giving tacit approval to the perpetrator through their non-action. One
can easily imagine others in the workplace feeling the respite from
the perpetrator's wrath because of the target's arrival and subsequent
targeting (leaving them out of the crosshairs). Whether it is out of
fear of retaliation, ignorance of what they can do or simply a desire
to not get involved, they further contribute to the feelings of
powerlessness and victimization the target experiences. This group,
however, is key to the target’s continued health and well-being.
*1
Namie, Drs. Gary and Ruth "The Bully at Work"
 |
Mike Hanlon is a former police officer and educator
who now works as a conflict resolution specialist, trainer and
presenter. Mike's experience in the field of bullying and bully
prevention includes working throughout western Canada as a school
bully response facilitator working with students, teachers,
administrators and parents. Mike is an affiliate with the
Workplace Bullying Institute and offers in-services and speaking
opportunities. An active member of ADRIA, Mike can be reached at
mike@backstopadr.ca
|
|
|